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Almost every woman is confident in male polygamy. Therefore, having “received rights” to her beloved, she begins to jealously try to convict him of treason. However, a lipstick stain on a shirt and someone else's hair do not always indicate the presence of a rival. It is much more important to pay attention to more telling signs that your other half is not able to skillfully veil. How to understand that a man is cheating? Simple enough.

Each man, depending on his temperament, has his own specific signs that signal the appearance of another woman in his life. And if for one it is an uncontrollable fireworks of uncontrollable emotions, then for another it is a door behind seven locks.

If you are looking for information and any clue about your husband's potential spree, be prepared to completely change your life

Be patient, put aside your emotions and use your powers of observation - these rules apply not only among detectives, but also among jealous wives. The main thing is to understand where there is real evidence that can be presented, and where there is only your speculation and spin.

The main signs by which you can understand that a man is cheating

It is important to assess the situation happening in the family in advance. Preparing several solutions to a problem, from sessions with a family therapist to hiring a good lawyer, takes time. What should a woman pay attention to in her husband’s behavior in order to understand whether he is cheating on her or not?

Psychology

Our subconscious periodically reveals all our secrets. A person’s behavior often indicates that he has someone to hide, where and to whom to go. Below are the main signs that can be seen in the behavior of unfaithful men, but they are all subjective and depend on individual character traits.

The man starts to lie

Intentional deception is the first subconscious factor that betrays any man. Women, unlike the stronger sex, can sense lies a mile away. Another thing is that for a long time I want to believe in business trips, night meetings and signing an agreement in a bathhouse with partners.

Lying isn't always a sign of cheating - maybe you're just applying too much pressure with your suspicions

Moreover, at the very beginning of his justifications from the lips of his lover, this sounds really plausible and continues until his justifications become uncertain. When a man first encounters the question: “does she believe what I tell her?”, he begins to carefully control every word and becomes an open book that even the most inexperienced woman in matters of infidelity can read.

Dissatisfaction and changing tastes

When a man has another woman and he is seriously attracted to her, familiar things begin to irritate him greatly. He doesn't like everything from the smell of your perfume, the color of the curtains or scattered toys.

Tastes begin to change noticeably. A man may start smoking other cigarettes or give up the bad habit altogether; weekly fishing suddenly gives way to billiards, and a budget perfume to a more expensive one. If once your husband could not live a day without meat, now he turns out to be an avid vegetarian or lover of Japanese cuisine.

Constant criticism is an alarming sign in a calm family life

Changes are gradually being introduced into personal life. A man can start using condoms, while knowing very well about contraception on your part. In sex, there is a desire to introduce novelty or try previously inapplicable positions. If the betrayal is not accidental, and you have a real rival, sex may become a rather rare occurrence or disappear altogether.

Appearance

You spent 3 years trying in vain to persuade him to change his jacket or buy new shoes, and then in a month he got several expensive new things? This is a wake-up call. As a rule, your husband, a night owl, suddenly turns into a lark and dresses up for two hours before going to work, or “on business.”

In itself, the desire to look good is an excellent quality, but what if it manifested itself unexpectedly?

He actively begins to take an interest in the latest fashion trends, spending hours browsing clothes in online stores. The newly minted handsome man trades beer parties with friends for the gym, and the end result is not as important to him as the very fact of invading the world of beautiful, pumped up bodies. He begins to care about your appearance, you must correspond to his new status - the most handsome man.

Mood

It all depends on the individual man. The one who usually mopes through life suddenly comes to life, the world around him blossoms and turns out to be not at all black and white, as he thought, but bright and colorful. I want to inhale the air more deeply, and the feeling of flying appears. Usually such people are always asked the same question: “Are you in love?”

The ability to sensitively sense changes in your partner’s psychological state is very useful if you want to make sure your spouse is faithful

Bright and temperamental individuals, subconsciously fearing exposure, on the contrary, withdraw into themselves. It seems to them that by hiding from the world, they will be able to hide the presence of their mistress or the fact of betrayal. To hide away from your eyes, the husband may start repairing something in the house, doing homework with the child, taking the children to classes, or preparing dinner. With all this, he is not trying to make up for his own guilt, but is afraid to meet your gaze once again.

Jealousy and suspicion

Unjustified jealousy and excessive attention to the personal space of the spouse is a subjective sign of “mirroring” behavior, projecting one’s sins onto the people around him

If your lover begins to be jealous of you for no reason, accuses you of treason, eavesdrops on telephone conversations and tries to read the SMS received, it means that he himself has a “snout in the cannon”. A person subconsciously evaluates your behavior through the prism of his actions. He attributes all his emotions and feelings to you, thereby fully revealing his essence.

The desire to change you

Have you suddenly noticed that you are wrong always and everywhere, it’s time for you to find a job, wear a dress of a different style, change your hair color, go for an anti-cellulite massage or do yoga? Know that, with a high probability, he has some kind of object that is actively exciting his brain. This does not always indicate that a betrayal has taken place, however, it is definitely possible to say that he likes her.

The desire to bring you closer to another ideal is another evidence of possible betrayal

If you want to regain your favor, act wisely and quietly. Do not rush to follow his lead and do not hint at the presence of another woman in his life. Start really changing. Just do everything exactly the opposite. He asks you to change your color from brunette to blonde - cut your hair short and dye it red, radically change your image and be sure to buy a gym membership, and in addition - a beautiful fitness tights. Usually, such manipulations force not women, but men to look differently at their half and, so to speak, fall in love again.

Indifference to your appearance

If a man doesn’t notice your beauty and ignores you, he has a more interesting hobby.

The opposite of the previous behavior is complete indifference. If a man stops complimenting you or says them without looking in your direction, he has lost interest in you. With a high degree of probability, it can be argued that there is a new object of admiration on the horizon or in reality, with which the loved one is already cheating or is about to do so. This may be confirmed by the lack of intimacy.

Evidence

When they mistrust their husbands, wives often try to “play detective,” looking almost with a magnifying glass for obvious signs of infidelity. What is worth paying attention to, and what reasons for jealousy are far-fetched?

Direct evidence

How to understand that a man is cheating on you based on physical evidence? Pay attention to the little things. Such items can be found everywhere - in the car, pockets, bag or on the desktop. They can be in the form of minor gifts (souvenirs) - business cards, souvenir photos, a new lighter, purse or pen.

Any girl tries to make a mark in a man’s life with a small gift or a bright souvenir.

A woman can give all these gifts from the bottom of her heart, so to speak, as a keepsake. More often, young girls are carried away by this, for whom such a souvenir is a part of themselves in the life of their beloved man. Older women put much more meaning into similar gifts, which lies in the fastest possible exposure of the unfaithful husband and his resigned submission to the new “owner”. As a rule, these are objects with lyrical (or sexual) symbolism, as well as non-standard shapes and colors.

Duplication of gifts

Men often duplicate gifts if they cheat. Moreover, this has nothing to do with not forgetting what exactly you gave and to whom. Usually one gift is chosen, and in order not to waste time and not use your imagination once again in search of another, a similar one is bought. It would seem - what's the catch? But most men think so.

Impersonal, “duty” gifts can be intended for several girls

For a woman, it seems quite strange that for all 10 years of marriage she received a food processor, a slow cooker, frying pans and other kitchen utensils as a gift, and then she suddenly received lacy erotic lingerie or perfume worth twice her salary. If the choice falls on perfume, do not rush to actively use it, for starters, remember its smell and then compare it with the one your husband brings after “night meetings”.

Telephone conversations

Men who have something to hide begin to treat their phone very carefully.
If previously the husband could not find it for hours, or the mobile phone lay quietly on the pillow all day, then suddenly it becomes the husband’s indispensable companion always and everywhere.

Sociability and sociability are great if the other end of the line is not a mistress

Representatives of the stronger sex do not tend to talk on the phone for hours, moreover, to hide in secluded places such as a balcony or bathroom for conversations. Therefore, if a man goes into another room, limits himself to dry phrases, or simply listens silently, this may be a cause for concern.

SMS

Many girls resort to such a vile and ugly act as reading other people's SMS and letters

Of course, reading other people's letters is extremely disrespectful. And you, most likely, have never done this. But, if all of the above reasons appear in life, it’s time to print out the letters. The main thing is, when you discover what you reached into your phone for, do not start an active showdown if you want to save your family. If, on the contrary, you are looking for a reason to break up, you hold the cards.

Marks on the body that indicate you are being deceived

It’s impossible without them. And only the most careful can avoid traces of deliberate female meanness, in the form of scratches, hickeys and lipstick marks. Not all hair on a jacket is clear evidence. Quite often at large corporate parties, after a decent amount of alcohol, various bold competitions begin, and the more the company drinks, the brighter the competitions become.

How to behave in a situation where everything has become clear is an individual matter for each woman.

Often, after such events, even the most faithful and loving husband can bring home the entire list of physical evidence. But often pronounced scratches on the back indicate exclusively that sex has taken place and the presence of another woman in a man’s life.

Behavior in the presence of a mistress

A love triangle can spur family life into a new phase, or it can completely destroy it

Lovers quite often have the chance to be in the same territory. More often this happens during an office romance. In a man, this phenomenon usually manifests itself in internal fear, which is indicated by fussy gestures, a shifting gaze and an unnatural (stupid) smile. He subconsciously tries to move as far away from his passion as possible so that you cannot understand or guess anything. His hands know no rest, endlessly shaking dust particles from his clothes or nervously scratching his nose and neck. The close presence of a lover comes down to showing unusual tenderness towards one’s other half and emphasizing its positive aspects. A man usually makes caustic remarks towards the object of his adoration or speaks about a woman with irritable overtones.

Betrayal by a loved one is a great pain and the main fear of most women. The ability to trust a loved one is an art. But is it worth humiliating yourself in your own eyes and missing the obvious signs? It's hard to believe that a loved one is capable of meanness, but for many it is better to know the information than to be ignorant. Determine for yourself what would be the best solution for you? Maybe it's not worth digging deeper?