If a young man or man has doubts about the fidelity of his beloved, there are only two possible options. The first - alas, changes. The second - a friend is honest, and you are painfully suspicious. In order not to offend your beloved with undeserved reproaches, which can just destroy the happiness you have built, you must try to objectively look at the situation. It’s not easy, but you won’t have to “discover America” either: psychologists know how to understand that a girl is cheating, so a man should follow their advice, compare facts and, if necessary, take action. Until it's not too late.

The first wake-up calls

For different couples, depending on the temperament of both and the nature of the relationship, these bells can be of different heights and strengths. If, for example, a girl has always been very emotional, jealous of every “skirt”, checking her partner’s email, sawing for socks thrown anywhere, and then suddenly stopped “getting” her other half, it is highly likely that she switched to someone -something third.

Changes or not? Trust your intuition and pay attention to some of the signs described in this article.

This call is important not to miss. Although most men, rejoicing that there are fewer claims against them, let him pass by. And in vain. The situation, most likely, is at the beginning of its development: in the life of a girl, someone simply appeared who is devoid of the negative traits that annoyed her in her old partner. Perhaps she felt interest and respect for herself, which she had previously lacked, but she has not yet decided to betray.

Another bell is an interest in one's own appearance. If the man himself does not cheat on his girlfriend and she does not need to outdo the lovebird, then her trips to the gym and the pool, following diets that she had previously ignored, are evidence that she has someone to be attractive to. And this, most likely, is not her husband or permanent boyfriend, who has ceased to notice whether the polish on her nails is perfect, whether her armpits are shaved and how long the dressing gown is. This someone is the object of her new interest.

Her eyes sparkle unusually, and her cheeks blush every now and then? Perhaps her thoughts are on your rival!

By the way, the main changes in the female image are not even a new dress and expensive lace lingerie, not a southern tan from a solarium, it is a sparkle in the eyes and a blush on the cheeks, which you have not seen since your first dates. Remember and draw conclusions.

The behavior of a girl who cheats: what to pay attention to a guy

If a girl is cheating on a guy or is about to cross a dangerous line, she cannot remain the same. Here are some points, according to psychologists, should alert:


Referring to the above list, a young man who doubts the fidelity of his chosen one will probably tick not every position. But if in this “damn dozen inconsistencies” there are at least 5-6 of them, the suspicions are most likely justified. Already so many coincidences make it clear that the girl is cheating.

How to know for sure that a girl is sleeping with someone

The bed can finally clarify, and sometimes ... Confuse the situation. The fact is that some girls are “turned on” by the fact that they have someone else, and they transfer their passion to the guy who has been cuckolded. Some do this on purpose to lull the vigilance of the unfortunate man.

If he could only understand everything and soberly assess what is happening (alas, he is just glad for the feelings that have washed over his girlfriend), he would have noticed an unusual behavior in the behavior of his chosen one. For example, if a girl began to bite his nipples during a love foreplay, which she had never practiced before, and he himself did not push her to such caresses, the question reasonably arises: where did the girl suddenly have such a need?

An unfaithful girl often refuses intimacy to her partner, and does not even want to kiss him

However, a more traditional development of events is when an unfaithful girl, under any pretext (and the fair sex always has a lot of them), refuses to be close to the guy she lives with. If within a few weeks the partners lie down in bed and fall asleep, each turning in his direction, this is a very alarming signal.

Another indicator of fidelity is a kiss. With the help of lips, you can say a lot to your lover - both about the strength of your feelings, and that he is the best in the world. But if the lips are silent, it's bad. The girl will not, with the same passion, kiss the one she is cheating on.

Understand the psychology of female infidelity - why and why

If a guy can change without experiencing pangs of conscience, then for the fair sex everything happens exactly the opposite, even if the girl ended up in someone else's bed as a result of sincere feelings and emotions that captured her. Experts say: 99% of women and girls who dared to betray will not be able to subsequently take it in cold blood and continue to live as if nothing special had happened in their lives.

How to understand why female infidelity happens? Here is a list of the most typical options:


As follows from the above, it is not so difficult to understand that a girl is cheating. If a man or young man suspects his girlfriend of infidelity, he persistently seeks answers to his disturbing questions, without thinking about what will happen later when the truth is revealed. Fortunately, there are several scenarios for the development of events, and not all of them are bad. Sometimes the stress of infidelity helps to revive marital relations, to return them to their original sincerity.